WordPress wants to kill my soul..!

Hi guys!!

I know have wronged you, have being away for a week now, but am really sorry. I don’t know if am frustrated or depressed about this blog or my life.

First, promoting post is a lot of work, and I don’t have money to pay to promote (it is said that as a blogger, if you want to increase blog view, you must at least pay to promote), and that is frustrating.

OK, I tried setting up a pop-up email subscription using mailchimp, after a lot of error and trial (don’t blame my ignorance, it’s not physics or chemistry), i sha succeeded; OK ooo, I was expecting a nice drop-in, like the ones you see when you log on to those popular blog, but HELL NO!!!, the thing was just stagnant up, making my ugly blog look more uglier.

Again, a friend, Emete of liveinibadan , told me I needed a blog theme, I needed to change my blog feel, of which she was right, I was beginning to get bored with this old theme, OK, so I decided to change my theme, tried out the free blog theme on wordpress, I change the blog theme up to three times this morning,:twisted:, the theme I liked most wasn’t responsive for small device, you can’t view it with opera mini,😭😭😭😭, I decided to go back to my old theme,SELA.

Now, customizing SELA again is a really big problem, like why can’t wordpress make their terms simpler and everything, I changed the fonts, but when I view with opera mini, the change isn’t effect, but on google chrome, it is.

Why why why?????

Everything is just hard, annoying, and depressing. I don’t have cash to hire a professional web designer, I don’t even have money to get a domain name yet(I don’t think I will eventually get, because I might just stop blogging).

OK, they say, interact with other bloggers, comment on their blog, blah blah blah, which i do/did (shout out to my blogger friends by the way, you guys make me smile😘😘😘), am an avid blog reader, even before I ventured on this blogging stuff, but my blog reading was limited, like I was faithful to the blogs I read, now being a blogger, a got to know many blogs and bloggers. They expect you to read, drop a comment if possible with your link, but they never click on that link you dropped.

But you come on my platform, drop your fucking link, I take my precious time to read, not scan Oo, read about the post you dropped in your link.

Now, to the agencies…

On Instagram (you better follow me, I won’t flood you TL with pic of ferns and tree,😂😂, @dee_iromi), I got to know about the Thebloggerpoint, they described themselves as a company ‘connecting bloggers with brand’, seriously am not seeing theirs usefulness, they only post pictures of ‘ghen ghen’ blogger I.e the top notch bloggers, there’s nothing to inspire me on their page, and most of all the post are about style and fashion blogger, they keep tabs on top bloggers, but never follow us the new blogger, and its frustrating.

If you are connecting blogger with brands, you should specify that’s its only ‘fashion bloggers’ , nobody is talking about the real lifestyle bloggers, student blogger, fitness blogger e.t.c, and it is typically annoying.

I read okotoenigma advice I.e blogging tips, am quite impressed but, have tried harder.

I don’t even know what to say anymore sef.

I might not do this anymore because am not understanding, and 

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I just want to inform my loyal readers ahead, so when you don’t receive my mails, you won’t be worked up, but heyyyy…you can still send that mail, I will respond.

Yours truly..

Oluwaseyi.